HARDEST THINGS IN LOVE

a..Being questioned when you yourself don't understand 

b.. Pretending to be innocent of what you know about

c..Trying to show you cared..

d..Trying to forget something you know you NEVER will

e..Admitting you were wrong after you have been so insistent that
    you were right

f.. Accepting the fact that you made a MISTAKE 

g..Debating with yourself

h..Knowing what's wrong and what's right

i.. GROWING UP

j.. ACCEPTING the fact that some things are NOT meant TO BE

k..Trying to understand when you just can't

l.. Swallowing your pride when it has become TOO HARD and

    TOO BIG to even gulp it down with water

m..Being the LAST TO KNOW about something that CONCERNS  

    you most of all

n.. Realizing that you have been TRICKED after you have given your

    WHOLE TRUST
o..Realizing that you have taken the most IMPORTANT thing for

    granted
p..PARTING with someone you've just LEARNED to LOVE

q..LETTING GO of someone you've LOVED ALL YOUR LIFE

r.. Losing someone you care deeply about

s..Saying SORRY when you MEAN it

t.. Saying how you REALLY FEEL 

    and Explaining WHERE YOU STAND

u..Knowing what is best and yet doing the exact opposite.

v..Bracing yourself for the worst kind of pain... &
   still hurting so much.

w..Loving someone too much and learning to love
    the pain that goes with it... that even if you learned to let go of the
    person...you still go on missing the pain you once felt (and there it
   goes again... you fall again)

x..Denying to yourself that you're
    falling... then finally you realize that indeed you have fallen when

    it's too damn late and you cant get out

y..Being with someone else when the right one comes along

z..Knowing deep inside that you love someone yet
    you can't say it out loud   ... 

When a GUY...

-When a GUY is quiet and is alone,
He is thinking of you and he misses you.

-When a GUY is lying on his bed,
He is thinking deeply why he loves you.

-When a GUY looks at you in your eyes,
He wants to tell you how much he loves
you and how important you are to him.

-When a GUY answers "I'm Fine" after a while,
He is not and feels hurt.

-When a GUY keep asking you the same question,
He is wondering why you are lying.

-When a GUY hugs you while sleeping,
He is wishing that you belong to him forever.

-When a GUY calls you everyday,
He Miss You and wants your attention.

-When a GUY wants to see you everyday,
He cares for you and he wants to know how
are you today.

-When a GUY sends message to you everyday,
He wants you to know he is fine.

-When a GUY says I love you,
He really means it.

-When a GUY says that he can't live without you,
He has made up his mind that you are his future
wife.

is this really true guys?????

36 CHRISTIAN WAYS TO REDUCE STRESS

An Angel says, "Never borrow from the future. If you worry about what may happen tomorrow and it doesn't happen, you have worried in vain.  Even if it does happen, you have to worry twice." 

1. Pray

2. Go to bed on time.

3. Get up on time so you can start the day unrushed.

4. Say No to projects that won't fit into your time schedule, or that will compromise your mental health.

5. Delegate tasks to capable others.

6. Simplify and unclutter your life.

7. Less is more. (Although one is often not enough, two are often too many.)

8. Allow extra time to do things and to get to places.

9. Pace yourself. Spread out big changes and difficult projects over time;don't lump the hard things all together.

10. Take one day at a time.

11 Separate worries from concerns. If a situation is a concern, find outwhat God would have you do and let go of the anxiety. If you can't do anything about a situation, forget it.

12. Live within your budget; don't use credit cards for ordinary purchases.

13. Have backups; an extra car key in your wallet, an
extra house key buried in the garden, extra stamps, etc.

14. K.M.S. (Keep Mouth Shut). This single piece of advice can prevent an enormous amount of trouble.

15. Do something for the Kid in You everyday.

16. Carry a Bible with you to read while waiting in line.

17. Get enough rest.

18. Eat right.

19. Get organized so everything has its place.

20. Listen to a tape while driving that can help improve your quality of life.

21. Write down thoughts and inspirations.

22. Every day, find time to be alone.

23. Having problems? Talk to God on the spot. Try to nip small problems in the bud. Don't wait until it's time to go to bed to try and pray.

24. Make friends with Godly people.

25. Keep a folder of favorite scriptures on hand.

26. Remember that the shortest bridge between despair and hope is often a good "Thank you Jesus."

27. Laugh.

28. Laugh some more!

29. Take your work seriously, but not yourself at all.

30. Develop a forgiving attitude (most people are doing the best they can).

31. Be kind to unkind people (they probably need it the most.

32. Sit on your ego.

33. Talk less; listen more.

34. Slow down.

35. Remind yourself that you are not the general manager of the universe

36 . Every night before bed, think of one thing you're grateful for thatyou've never been grateful for before. GOD HAS A

WAY OF TURNING THINGS AROUND FOR YOU. "If God is for us, who can be against us?" (Romans 8:31) 

101 STEPS TO HAVING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP

This is for any one involved in a relationship.
1. Watch the sunset together. 2. Take showers together. 3. Back rubs/massages. 4. Listen to classical music and cuddle in the dark or w/ backlight 5. French Kiss. 6. Hold her w/ hands inside the back of her shirt. 7. Whisper to each other. 8. Cook for each other. 9. Skinny dip. 10. Make out in the rain. 11. Dress each other. 12. Undress each other. 13. Kiss every part of their body. 14. Hold hands. 15. Sleep together. (Actually sleep with each other-not sex) 16. One word- Foreplay 17. Sit and talk in just underwear. 18. Buy gifts for each other. 19. Roses. 20. Find out their favorite cologne/perfume and wear it every time you're        together. 21. Wear his clothes. 22. Find a nice secluded place to lie and watch the stars. 23. Incense/candles/oils/blacklights and music make for great cuddling/sex. 24. Kiss at every chance you get. 25. Don't wear underwear and let them find out. 26. Kinky is bad- Blindfolds are good. 27. Lightly kiss their collarbone and their jawbone just below the ear, then        whisper I love you. 28. Bubble baths. 29. Go for a long walk down the beach at midnight. 30. Make love. 31. Write poetry for each other. 32. Kiss/smell her hair. 33. Hugs are the universal medicine. 34. Say I love you, only when you mean it and make sure they know you          mean it. 35. Give random gifts of flowers/candy/poetry etc. 36. Tell her that she's the only girl you ever want.  Don't lie. 37. Spend every second possible together. 38. Tell her that she doesn't have to do anything she doesn't want to.  And         mean it. 39. Look into each other's eyes. 40. Very lightly push up her chin, look into her eyes, tell her you love her, and          kiss her lightly. 41. Talk to each other using only body language and your eyes. 42. When in public, only flirt w/ each other. 43. Walk behind her and put your hands in her front pockets. 44. Put love notes in their pockets when they aren't looking. 45. Clothes are no fun. 46. Buy her a ring. 47. Keep one of her bras somewhere where you see it everyday. 48. Sing to each other. 49. Read to each other. 50. PDA =3D Public Display of Affection. 51. Take advantage of any time alone together. 52. Tell her about how you answered every question in math with her name. 53. Draw. (If you can) 54. Let her sit on your lap. 55. Go hiking and camp out together in the woods or on a mountain. 56. Lips were made for kissing. So were eyes, and fingers, and cheeks, and collarbones, and hands, and ears. 57. Kiss her stomach. 58. Always hold her around her hips/sides. 59. Guys like half-shirts. 60. Take her to dinner and do the dinner for two deal. 61. Spaghetti-- (Ever see Lady and the Tramp?) 62. Hold her hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand and then put it over your           heart.  63. Unless you can feel their heart beating, you aren't close enough 64. Dance together. 65. Sit in front of a roaring fire and make out/make love. 66. I love the way a girl looks right after she's fallen asleep with her headin my          lap. 67. Carry her to bed. 68. Waterbeds are fun. 69. You figure it out. 70. Do cute things like write I love you in a note so that they have to look in a        mirror to read it. 71. Break every one of your parent's relationship rules for them. 72. Make excuses to call them every 5 minutes 73. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to call and        say I love you. 74. Call from your vacation spot to tell them you were thinking about them. 75. Remember your dreams and tell her about them. 76. Ride your bike 8 miles just to see them for a few hours. 77. Ride home and call them. 78. Tell each other your most sacred secrets/fears. 79. Somehow incorporate them into any kind of religion or worship you have. 80. Be Prince Charming to her parents. (Brownie Points) 81. Act out mutual fantasies together. (Not necessarily sexual) 82. Brush her hair out of her face for her. 83. Stay up all night to think of 101 ways to be sweet to them. 84. Hang out with his/her friends. (more brownie points) 85. Go to church/pray/worship together. 86. Take her to see a romantic movie and remember the parts she liked. 87. Cuddle together under a full moon on a clear night. 88. Learn from each other and don't make the same mistake twice. 89. Everyone deserves a second chance. 90. Describe the joy you feel just to be with him/her. 91. Make sacrifices for each other. 92. Really love each other, or don't stay together. 93. Write a fictional story about how you met/fell in love, etc. and give it to        them. 94. Let there never be a second during any given day that you aren't thinking        about them, and make sure they know it. 95. Love yourself before you love anyone else. 96. Learn to say sweet things in foreign languages. 97. Dedicate songs to them on the radio. 98. Fall asleep on the phone with each other. 99. Sleep naked together. 100. Stand up for them when someone talks trash. 101. Never forget the kiss goodnight. And always remember to say, "Sweet         dreams."

Andie Eigenmann's Pregnancy: A blessing or A Disguise?

Yesternight, i was able to watch TV Patrol Shobiz Balita regarding the Filipina actress and model, Andie Eigenmann and i was so excited that finally she will speak regarding her pregnancy. Reporters were following her waiting any scoop regarding the father of her baby. Her baby bump was already too obvious and i was wondering how she will able to manage the pressure of being one of the main casts in the soap opera "Minsan Lang Kita Iibigin" as the love interest of Coco Martin. I know pregnancy is not easy as it sounds (though i was not able to experience it). Apart from the excitement, this stage entails danger too for the part of the woman. Pregnancy has many risks. Both emotional and physical. But i admired Andie for being versatile and flexible. She was still able to manage to give splendid acting for the said soap opera.

But to my dismay, i was not able to satisfy my curious mind like any other filipinos who were following Andie's Personal life. No bombing revelations were heard. She just said she was fine while keep on smiling to every reporter who interviewed her. In fairness, she was still blooming and looks hot even without make up!
Anyway, what should i expect? to learn who  was really the father of her baby? her former boyfriend (Albie Casino) tweeted that Andie had many boyfriends and i think that was one of the reasons of their break up. So, does Andie really know who's the father of her baby? Albie's mother tweeted too that there were open for DNA test. Well, DNA test is was necessary if Albie was really sure that he is the father of the baby. So, why albie was not so sure then? Because Andie had many boy (as what he tweeted). Accusations sprung anywhere. I could not give my verdict yet because evidences were too superficial to justify the actions.

Well, one thing for sure Andie already fulfilled the real essence of a woman.
Mom said "she was too young." Then i replied, "No, she is not!". Andie is now 22 years old. and she will be having a baby, and Me? I am 30 years old and i dont know when i will be having a baby! Mom just smiled. 22 years old is not too young to get pregnant. Well, if we will base it physically. But for Andie, who is right now at the peak of her career, filling the air with youthful tunes then i guess she is too young to get pregnant. Having a baby is a blessing, as everyone says. But i guess, its indeed a blessing when you are really prepared have a child. Having a child does not end when you give birth. It entails responsibilities that you need to carry until your last breath.

What I've Learned

WHAT I'VE LEARNED

I've learned that we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.
I've learned that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
I've learned that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. The same goes for true love.

I've learned that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life. I've learned that it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.
I've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.
I've learned that you can keep going long after you can't.
I've learned that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel. I've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.
I've learned that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.
I've learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I've learned that money is a lousy way of keeping score.
I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.
I've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down, will be the ones to help you get back up.
I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them, and less to do with how many years you have lived.
I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself. I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.
I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do love each other.
I've learned that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time. I've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down, will be the ones to help you get back up.
I've learned that sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.
I've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.
I've learned that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them, and less to do with how many years you have lived.
I've learned that it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.

I've learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief. I've learned that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.

 I've learned that just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do love each other.

A Woman..

A woman is like a flower
that blossoms as you nourish her with love and care.
It feeds on sunshine and Love
which it must also share

It gets its water from tender Loving Kisses
Which it needs each and everyday
like a flower the woman will wither and die
If left alone and turned away.

If not given the tenderness and careIt will seek another place to grow.
It needs a gardener with tenderness in his heart
As to never die alone.

To totally fulfill life’s necessities.
The flower needs a gardener at her side.
Someone to stand by her.
someone with a soft hand like mine.

so let me be your gardener,and fertilize your stems.
I want to always turn your dirt,
That's till life's very end